On my list of Top 10 things to do in life is reading the comments on blogs—any blog, not just mine. I was reading over on bossip.com about women settling and the alleged lack of “good” Black men and found this response from a Black man:
Well, I am not here to dispute that there are a lack of good black men for black women. However, I am here to address the notions of Black women when it comes to "settling" and whether they should lower her standards, or not.
To women who don't think that they should settle, yes you should. Not only do men do it all the time but also 95% of the world "settles" when it comes to a choosing a mate.
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